#PTSDchat Transcript
Healthcare social media transcript of the #PTSDchat hashtag.
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Sue Wood @TruthPathing Evening! Welcome to our #ptsdchat about Child Abuse Prevention with Kate Gillie and Tim Grutzius! We have a podcast. Link is in the newsletter. | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @KateGillieART A1 The only experience I have with child abuse is as a paramedic. It is very devastating and can leave the abused very broken, lost, and thirsting for love. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat Good evening, day, afternoon, or night to all who are here tonight! Gald to be here, I may ramble, I'm a little off due to sleeping meds! Woo Hoo! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @cannonfyre12 Hooah!! #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat A1.a The effects can be physical scarring, psychological dismemberment, abnormally high levels of rage and an inability for the child2 exercise self-control around others. Bedwetting, body injuring, anti-social behaviors, aggressive and abusive actions against others. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat A1 the mistreatment, neglect of, and the physical and psychological torture of a child at the hands of anyone from whom they cannot protect themselves. Even those who stand silent are guilty because they know but won't stop what is happening. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @TruthPathing: #PTSDchat #Word #Pic #Art for tonight's #ChildAbusePrevention topic. Do/did you have intense anger? Describe it. https://t.co/6QWAnKC0Q0 | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @TruthPathing Hi Sue, it was such an enlightening interview to say the least. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @KateGillieART A1 The only experience I have with child abuse is as a paramedic. It is very devastating and can leave the abused very broken, lost, and thirsting for love. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @TruthPathing Hi Sue, it was such an enlightening interview to say the least. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing Childhood Abuse and PTSD | #PTSDchat Link to Podcast https://t.co/dX044yKpEj | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff RT @TruthPathing: Childhood Abuse and PTSD | #PTSDchat Link to Podcast https://t.co/dX044yKpEj | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff Certainly was! #ptsdchat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff Let us take a moment to reflect on the events in Toronto the other day. @TorontoBTB #ptsdchat We are there for you and will assist in any way possible | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @KateGillieART I always wondered how someone learned right from wrong when abuse started as a baby. The trauma and recovery from child abuse is for a lifetime. #ptsdchat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat A3 Where to begin is subject that is more of a personal aspect on an individual level than a generic one. I see individuals so I would start by saying to the person that they are in an open space, where they are safe to talk about it. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: Let us take a moment to reflect on the events in Toronto the other day. @TorontoBTB #ptsdchat We are there for you and will assist in any way possible | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @TruthPathing @KateGillieART When one is a baby, this trauma becomes all they know. I think it would be difficult to process and differentiate between right and wrong. #ptsdchat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat A3 for the person to feel open to the option that the safety they want, is now truly available. Instantaneous healing is not one of the truths about being helpful to anyone who has been abused. the process can take years, but trust must be known from the start. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff @TorontoBTB We are out here to listen as a group, but as importantly, individually. DM's are OK. #Toronto #TorontoStrong #PTSDchat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat I let the person give me the information they want to share, and I don't comment unless they ask me to. I find that when I'm with my therapist, that she should want to hear what I'm saying before she has anything to add. Getting out and into the air is important | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat A3 for the person to feel open to the option that the safety they want, is now truly available. Instantaneous healing is not one of the truths about being helpful to anyone who has been abused. the process can take years, but trust must be known from the start. | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @KateGillieART A2 It depends on the person, but PTSD, mistrust, fear, anger, hopelessness. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 And developing trust is a difficult process, but is possible. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat A3 Where to begin is subject that is more of a personal aspect on an individual level than a generic one. I see individuals so I would start by saying to the person that they are in an open space, where they are safe to talk about it. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @TruthPathing @KateGillieART When one is a baby, this trauma becomes all they know. I think it would be difficult to process and differentiate between right and wrong. #ptsdchat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 It is not impossible when surrounded by love, caring and compassion. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff @KateGillieART My thinking exactly. I was told one man learned from observing others what he was supposed to do. He didn't feel genuine tho. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 It is not impossible when surrounded by love, caring and compassion. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat I let the person give me the information they want to share, and I don't comment unless they ask me to. I find that when I'm with my therapist, that she should want to hear what I'm saying before she has anything to add. Getting out and into the air is important | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat #ShoutAgainstChildAbuseStickYourNoseIntoTheirBusiness I get involved, I've faced down a spouse abuser, and I'm physically challenged. But my gun hand isn't! Never f*ck with a man with a DD-214, EVER! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @KateGillieART A2 It depends on the person, but PTSD, mistrust, fear, anger, hopelessness. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat #ShoutAgainstChildAbuseStickYourNoseIntoTheirBusiness I get involved, I've faced down a spouse abuser, and I'm physically challenged. But my gun hand isn't! Never f*ck with a man with a DD-214, EVER! | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat I was abused by participating in first-responder situations, but I didn't know it at the time. Events in Toronto brought back the worst day of my life. I am triggered and going around in circles beyond belief! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 It seems like in some situations it is very difficult to get involved. That makes kids feel like they have no one to help them. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat I was abused by participating in first-responder situations, but I didn't know it at the time. Events in Toronto brought back the worst day of my life. I am triggered and going around in circles beyond belief! | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet A2: Broken reasoning; judgment that doesn't lead to healthy conclusions. #PTSDChat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @cannonfyre12 We would hope to never resort to violence to prove a point or defend another. By advocating and educating on their behalf can move mountains. Believe you me as a medic these types of calls have rattled my cage #ptsdchat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @cannonfyre12 I am here if you want to talk my friend. #ptsdchat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat The one thing we cannot do is to remain silent or passive! We must aggressively interact. #DontBeMildManneredBeStraightToThePoint crush child abusers and then reach out in kindness and compassion to the child. really be available. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 Prayers for #Toronto and for you. This is such a difficult time. It's about First Responders and civilians. We are here for all. #ptsdchat | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 Can you give an example of a situation where it's difficult to get involved? #PTSDchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: A2: A2: Broken reasoning; judgment that doesn't lead to healthy conclusions. #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @cannonfyre12 We would hope to never resort to violence to prove a point or defend another. By advocating and educating on their behalf can move mountains. Believe you me as a medic these types of calls have rattled my cage #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @cannonfyre12 I am here if you want to talk my friend. #ptsdchat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @cannonfyre12 As MLK once said "Our lives begin to end the day we remain silent about things that matter." Wise man. #ptsdchat | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet @cannonfyre12 When crushing child abusers does one also crush the abuser's abuser and the abuser before them? #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff @cannonfyre12 When you hear for a year about horrific childhood experiences and hear daily of the emotional scars there for life, it makes you feel desperate to help. I had more sadness and "memories" over a child abuse story told to me than about my own stuff. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 Can you give an example of a situation where it's difficult to get involved? #PTSDchat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @KateGillieART A3 With assistance of a qualified professional, they can work through the trauma and acknowledge that it was not their fault. Kinda of a Good Will Hunting moment. #ptsdchat #RobinWilliams | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 That is called vicarious trauma #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @bannedtweet @cannonfyre12 Kate talks about instances in the podcast where intervening can separate the only helpful, trustworthy people the kid has from the kid, due to parents' reactions. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat The one thing we cannot do is to remain silent or passive! We must aggressively interact. #DontBeMildManneredBeStraightToThePoint crush child abusers and then reach out in kindness and compassion to the child. really be available. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: @cannonfyre12 When crushing child abusers does one also crush the abuser's abuser and the abuser before them? #PTSDChat | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet A3-a:"I was abused" b: "I'm statistically more likely to hurt people because of A" c: "Breaking the chain is the priority. Everything else in life follows that" d:"Forgiveness is only ever for my benefit" #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @cannonfyre12 As MLK once said "Our lives begin to end the day we remain silent about things that matter." Wise man. #ptsdchat | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet @cannonfyre12 What about emotional abuse - ie: Gaslighting wives, demeaning husbands, devaluing children? #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 That is called vicarious trauma #ptsdchat | |
Jessica Rose @JRoseRN https://t.co/JD6yyRLE5y #PTSDchat #disasterrecovery #KeepTalkingMH | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @bannedtweet @cannonfyre12 We definitely talked about gaslighting in the podcast. That is something we can expand on in future chats. #ptsdchat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat A4 I forgave myself, but never him! I rode him about what he tried to do to me, until his death. I never allowed him to forget it. I kept him in my sights and threatened to mess him up as an adult. He was fearful of that, He knew I would've torn him apart. I had rage! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff @cannonfyre12 It brands on you and nothing else you hear along those lines can be listened to ever again without emotion attached. #ptsdchat In the podcast, just listening to Kate, this other story came back as well. Took me by surprise. | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @cannonfyre12 How did you get past this rage? #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff @cannonfyre12 And all of this without any sensory but audio. That is powerful. Gives perspective on live experiences. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @KateGillieART A3 With assistance of a qualified professional, they can work through the trauma and acknowledge that it was not their fault. Kinda of a Good Will Hunting moment. #ptsdchat #RobinWilliams | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 If we can't lesson someone's trauma then I think 'helpful' doesn't really apply to us and even 'trustworthy' might be an overstatement. #PTSDChat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat Often we are unaware that we have been affected by our experiences. As a child, I was bullied and had a family friend attempt to sexually molest/rape me. My ability to hurt him at that time didn't save me from the memories I still feel about the attempt. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff @KateGillieART Exactly. I think that movie did so much to show compassion, love and understanding. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 If we can't lesson someone's trauma then I think 'helpful' doesn't really apply to us and even 'trustworthy' might be an overstatement. #PTSDChat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat there is no such thing as a benign attempt at being abused, it causes emotional reactions and fears that you will become a victim. I couldn't tell because many people would have been altered in ways they didn't deserve. I took it from him, but it's still with me. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @bannedtweet @cannonfyre12 They got to a point where it was whatever they could do with very little access or nothing at all by being totally blocked. I am not disagreeing with you, though. #ptsdchat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff Hi Jess @identitydiss how are you? #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @bannedtweet @cannonfyre12 Then there's the difference between "lessening" and "eliminating" trauma. #ptsdchat | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @KateGillieART A4 I think it is more about self-compassion, and not hating yourself for something you believe you may have caused. #ptsdchat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat A4.a I feel forgiveness to a person who purposely hurt me is a negative point for me. I don't have to forgive an icehole, I can stay angry with that person and NEVER let him off the hook! I need that for my health | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: A3-a:"I was abused" b: "I'm statistically more likely to hurt people because of A" c: "Breaking the chain is the priority. Everything else in life follows that" d:"Forgiveness is only ever for my benefit" #PTSDChat | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet A4: Forgiveness begins and ends with the person who was wronged - including whether to choose to forgive. The benefits can be life changing but that doesn't mean it's a good fit for everyone. #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @bannedtweet I wonder what percentage of people can accomplish that, believe it is possible, and want to change. #ptsdchat Some very dedicated people have changed. | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat I lost ME one day! My pain is raw again because I relived the event through what happened in Toronto this week. My heart is in the same pain, my tears are flowing at the weirdest of times. All the years and that pain are now raw again! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat Often we are unaware that we have been affected by our experiences. As a child, I was bullied and had a family friend attempt to sexually molest/rape me. My ability to hurt him at that time didn't save me from the memories I still feel about the attempt. | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat I appreciate the podcast tonight. Thanks, to Kate and Tim for doing this for us. | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat Two of the worst human events I've ever witnessed one was personal, and the other was in the line of duty. Who the hell am I kidding there are at least four that stand out prominently! | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @cannonfyre12 you are welcome my friend. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 It is hard for me 2 understand, since u took control of the situation, why it scarred u, and I know it did. With your inner and outer strength and your success, I have a hard time processing this, and I really want to understand. #ptsdchat I am asking which elements scarred you. | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat NOw, we have laws that are more fractured than the victims. More people are being broken by apathetic judges and police and family members and friends. If I am a stranger, I'll get involved. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat there is no such thing as a benign attempt at being abused, it causes emotional reactions and fears that you will become a victim. I couldn't tell because many people would have been altered in ways they didn't deserve. I took it from him, but it's still with me. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 So in one's mind is that if there is a next time, it could easily be a different outcome. #ptsdchat | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet A4cont: I personally apply forgiveness to every large & small wrong I can (some are beyond me). With that goes preemptively apologizing for my part in mistakes, even if my error is barely relevant I'm not advocating this, just saying it's what I worked out I need to do #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: Hi Jess @identitydiss how are you? #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @KateGillieART A4 I think it is more about self-compassion, and not hating yourself for something you believe you may have caused. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat A4.a I feel forgiveness to a person who purposely hurt me is a negative point for me. I don't have to forgive an icehole, I can stay angry with that person and NEVER let him off the hook! I need that for my health | |
Tim Grutzius @holisticff @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 good night all, have a great week. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: A4: A4: Forgiveness begins and ends with the person who was wronged - including whether to choose to forgive. The benefits can be life changing but that doesn't mean it's a good fit for everyone. #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 good night all, have a great week. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @holisticff @cannonfyre12 You, too! Thank you to you and Kate for the podcast, and it's important information! #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @holisticff: @cannonfyre12 you are welcome my friend. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat Two of the worst human events I've ever witnessed one was personal, and the other was in the line of duty. Who the hell am I kidding there are at least four that stand out prominently! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat I appreciate the podcast tonight. Thanks, to Kate and Tim for doing this for us. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat I lost ME one day! My pain is raw again because I relived the event through what happened in Toronto this week. My heart is in the same pain, my tears are flowing at the weirdest of times. All the years and that pain are now raw again! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 #Prayers for you. Reliving such an event is horrifying. #ptsdchat TY for discussing tonight's topic with us. | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 Thank you! #ptsdchat | |
The Doc as eR+T=L living on purpose! @CosmicLifeOfMe #ptsdchat I thank all of you for being here for me. This site and the chat have been a blessing, it needs to exist. @KateGillieART @holisticff and @TruthPathing did a hell of a good job for tonight's show! Thanks, family! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: A4cont: A4cont: I personally apply forgiveness to every large & small wrong I can (some are beyond me). With that goes preemptively apologizing for my part in mistakes, even if my error is barely relevant I'm not advocating this, just saying it's what I worked out I need to do #PTSDChat | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet @TruthPathing When we expect that we're likely to hurt others unless we interrupt our internal mechanisms - I think that is the moment when we've saddled our internal monster. After that it gets really hard. #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @bannedtweet Not easy to learn to do. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @cannonfyre12: #ptsdchat I thank all of you for being here for me. This site and the chat have been a blessing, it needs to exist. @KateGillieART @holisticff and @TruthPathing did a hell of a good job for tonight's show! Thanks, family! | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @cannonfyre12 @KateGillieART @holisticff Thank you, and thanks to all for a genuine discussion of the topic. #ptsdchat This is how we learn and change, as needed. | |
The Happy Hunker @bannedtweet Hey. Son brought home chicken. Bye. #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: @TruthPathing When we expect that we're likely to hurt others unless we interrupt our internal mechanisms - I think that is the moment when we've saddled our internal monster. After that it gets really hard. #PTSDChat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing @bannedtweet That makes sense. The rest of it lasts a lifetime. Some have not had or gotten near kids to make sure there is no problem. Sacrifices that the victims should never have had to make. Individual/different choices for each individual. #ptsdchat | |
Sue Wood @TruthPathing RT @bannedtweet: Hey. Son brought home chicken. Bye. #PTSDChat |
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