#bpdchat Transcript
Healthcare social media transcript of the #bpdchat hashtag.
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| Profile | Tweet |
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 | BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Hello and welcome to #BPDChat if you feel affected by tonight's chat please contact your country's helpline at https://t.co/xM11LzEVEP |
 | Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Hello and welcome to #BPDChat if you feel affected by tonight's chat please contact your country's helpline at https://t.co/GtlNdoZpFo |
 | RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood RT @CarlDunnJr: Sunday! #BPDChat ! Topic: Who am I?: Sunday! #BPDChat ! Topic: Who am I?: Identity & BPD - 9pm BST (UK), 4pm EDT (US) #SPSM - 'You Are Not Alone' |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Also, check here for other links to emotional crisis support: https://t.co/mxOmwvgtLu #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Also, check here for other links to emotional crisis support: https://t.co/fdwGqnYZ2q #BPDChat |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat If you're going to post something that may affect others please use TW Trigger warning #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr If you're going to post something that may affect others please use TW Trigger warning #BPDChat |
 | Borderline OK @Borderline_OK Hello #BPDChat Been not very talkative for a couple of weeks, hopefully I'll find some words today :) |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood @Alice_DBT hi hi! :) #BPDChat |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Icebreaker: What is one of your favorite summer memories? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Icebreaker: What is one of your favorite summer memories? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @RJ_in_the_Wood Hi! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Alice_DBT Hi! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @TracieJayne_ @OfficialBPDChat Hi! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
 | Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter @OfficialBPDChat Favourite summer memory is from small and having fun in the paddling pool. #BPDChat |
 | Floyd @iamfinenoreally hi #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Hi, everyone! #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood @Borderline_OK Hola! Happy to see you @Borderline_OK #bpdchat |
 | Dr.Bart Andrews@BHR @BartAndrews RT @CarlDunnJr: https://t.co/JJ7t2KaTZ2: https://t.co/JJ7t2KaTZ2: You can donate your social media data for MH research by Qntfy at https://t.co/JKXTKPC8kE #BPDChat #SPSM 2/2 |
| Dr.Bart Andrews@BHR @BartAndrews RT @CarlDunnJr: A compassionate book for families (based on DBT research): A compassionate book for families (based on DBT research): Shari Manning's "Loving Someone with BPD". #BPDChat #SPSM https://t.co/HVeJLUG7YW |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @lizzyladun @OfficialBPDChat Hi! #BPDChat |
| Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter @CarlDunnJr Hi. How are you? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Meandmymhmatter I'm very well, thanks! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @allyc375: |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK Honestly, taking a portable CD player/batteries, beers, walking a mile into the countryside w/3-4 friends, smoking weed by a river #BPDChat https://t.co/nFtwvM5nlz |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally #BPDChat floating down a river on a tractor inner tube reading. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @allyc375 Hi, Alison! #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood RT @CarlDunnJr: If you're going to post something that may affect others please use TW Trigger warning #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK #BPDChat probably 20 years ago. Still love a song I first heard that day #BPDisco https://t.co/kT55Z3fshE |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr My random summer memories are swim team practice and lunchtime BLT sandwiches with iced tea. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @eleaanormay Hi. Thanks for checking in. Hope you feel better. #BPDChat |
 | Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @OfficialBPDChat Cooking up a ratatouille picnic and going to the beach in the evening when my mom would get home from work #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @GemmaLuescher: @OfficialBPDChat Cooking up a ratatouille picnic and going to the beach in the evening when my mom would get home from work #BPDChat |
 | Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug Good after noon. My fave summer memory is spending all day at the beach! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @GemmaLuescher @OfficialBPDChat Hi, Gemma! #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @TracieJayne_ Even back then, this was a few depressed guys, escaping feelings for an afternoon I sometimes miss getting *so* wasted I feel OK #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr @OfficialBPDChat Little late jumping in but I am here. #bpdchat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug I had the most amazing thing happen at work. I met a new hire who has BPD. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: I had the most amazing thing happen at work. I met a new hire who has BPD. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @cujokillerpug Wow! How was that? #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @TracieJayne_ True. Sometimes I get a hint of it if I take cocodamol for pain, or benzos, but it's not that "going from 0 to chilled in 15 mins" #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood Chasing gartersnakes dwn by the river & carrying 'em back 2 the beach @ the lake, & we built walls out of sand, 2 try & pen them in #BPDchat https://t.co/gAEEmfoiiW |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @jaklumen Hi. We're on the icebreaker: What's your favorite summer memory? #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @Alice_DBT I miss the beach terribly- i used to live walikng distance to a hanful of beaches near vancouver. #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr It was great. The look on her face when she knew for the first time she was not alone is something I will never forget. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: @CarlDunnJr It was great. The look on her face when she knew for the first time she was not alone is something I will never forget. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @cujokillerpug Sounds wonderful. #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr I told her if there is anything I can help her wtith let me know. This is what I have always wanted to do. Give hope.#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: @CarlDunnJr I told her if there is anything I can help her wtith let me know. This is what I have always wanted to do. Give hope.#BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @Alice_DBT I love the beach, Mom had a hard time getting me out of the water as a kid LOL #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @jaklumen @Alice_DBT Vancouver BC- I am a canuck #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood @TracieJayne_ @imeloweez currently 'maple walnut', but 'mint-chocolate-chip' was my long standing fav before that & probably always will B my default choice #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @TracieJayne_ @CarlDunnJr It was an absolute random meeting. I am still on a high about it! #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @FieldingPolly @Alice_DBT The beach I went to was a mile long. Space for everyone.#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: @TracieJayne_ @CarlDunnJr It was an absolute random meeting. I am still on a high about it! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Thanks for telling us some of your favorite summer memories. -- Here comes tonight's topic. #BPDChat |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Tonight's topic is..... Who am I?: Identity & BPD #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Tonight's topic is..... Who am I?: Identity & BPD #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Let's start by asking, is identity & a sense of self something that is challenging for you? #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood RT @CarlDunnJr: Tonight's topic is..... Who am I?: Tonight's topic is..... Who am I?: Identity & BPD #BPDChat |
 | Heather Wray @whereis_heather @janeymachine Sorry jumping in so late. I got distracted on a donut mission #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr How do you experience this sense of being a person, your sense of yourself? #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK I have a weird problem recalling faces. Including mine. Photos I can recall, but not "real" views of people, yet I recog. if I c u #BPDChat https://t.co/KIkRazqJ2H |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Borderline_OK: I have a weird problem recalling faces. Including mine. Photos I can recall, but not "real" views of people, yet I recog. if I c u #BPDChat https://t.co/KIkRazqJ2H |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr For sure, I have no idea who I am or even how to find myself #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug This is the beach I went to, My family lived close to the top of the mountain in the background. #BPDChat https://t.co/gPCm9uopWE |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally Hi I'm new to #BPDChat and being open about it so I really appreciate this. We live in an age of identity politics which is hard with #BPD |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SemicolonTravel: @CarlDunnJr For sure, I have no idea who I am or even how to find myself #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @SemicolonTravel Thanks for sharing. We're glad you're here. #BPDChat |
 | downtrodden 👣 @annecremin @CarlDunnJr I don't have identity or personality (know I probs do but not aware of it/couldn't say what it is); I just reflect others around me #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood Sometimes Identity & sense of self is challenging. But maybe not the way you would think... #BPDChat 1/3 https://t.co/rCy0rgzfwS |
| Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter @CarlDunnJr I find it hard to know who I am. Hard to know what is really me. #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK So yeah, I'm mostly aware of myself as the back of a pair of hands And what I am when alone with eyes closed (yay #solipsism) #BPDChat https://t.co/MQ9ah8jo7j |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @TracieJayne_ Yes, I think that's one way of saying it. #BPDChat |
 | President Dawg’s First Lady Neva @pipandbaby RT @CarlDunnJr: Tonight's topic is..... Who am I?: Tonight's topic is..... Who am I?: Identity & BPD #BPDChat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin I don't have identity or personality (know I probs do but not aware of it/couldn't say what it is); I just reflect others around me #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug I still srtuggle with whoI am. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @iamfinenoreally: Hi I'm new to #BPDChat and being open about it so I really appreciate this. We live in an age of identity politics which is hard with #BPD |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @iamfinenoreally Hi! Welcome to #BPDChat. |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally #BPDChat there is a lot of pressure to identify very specifically. As a Borderline the sense of identity is relentlessly fluid. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood 2/3 Its not that I cant identify things about me; its that theres so many different things & they dont always seem 2 fit together #BPDChat https://t.co/6nrA67bxfu |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin I pretty regularly change my mind about what I am or should be and how I should portray myself to others #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @Alice_DBT I try to wake up planning to be nice, make ppl happy if I am around anyone, and that's it. Just get by, get through, get it over #BPDChat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin I pretty regularly change my mind about what I am or should be and how I should portray myself to others #BPDChat #BPDawareness |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug I do not think the media is helping people with who they are either. #bpdchat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @TracieJayne_ @CarlDunnJr That sounds like a HUGE undertaking. And a worthwhile one! How long did it take? And how emotionally hard was it? #BPDChat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin To make up for this utter absence of idea of self I find myself a couple of traits which I cling to & build a 'personality' around #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @jaklumen @Alice_DBT I'll never forget expo 86. That brought us the skytrain. ( and the space shuttle ride(traumatised me) #BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally @jaklumen #BPDChat @jaklumen my identity seems to change on a day-to-day basis - but I long to have a fixed identity so I can find My People. |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood 3/3 When it comes to values though... I seem to have trouble identifying where I stand (as opposed to where I was raised to stand) #BPDChat https://t.co/0mxcMEs5rg |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Self-identity involves having a stable sense of self, a sense of your preferences, your values, and your world view. #BPDchat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @jaklumen It it always pushing one idea or another and it does not fit most people. BPD makes it hard enough with out it.#BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally @CarlDunnJr Thank you Carl. Appreciate what you are doing. #BPDChat |
 | Genevieve. @sgenevievecs @OfficialBPDChat Hi guys, first time joining. I have no clue who I am. There's so many versions of myself, it's hard to keep up. #BPDchat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin I stick to things like my political views & love of alcohol to centre myself, but it often feels kinda like I'm a parody of myself? #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher Sorry guys my computer suddenly went on airplane mode - not sure how either. #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood sounds like a interesting process. Probably very helpful #BPDchat https://t.co/IoLjuomv9y |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @RJ_in_the_Wood: Sometimes Identity & sense of self is challenging. But maybe not the way you would think... #BPDChat 1/3 https://t.co/rCy0rgzfwS |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @allyc375: |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood RT @Borderline_OK: @TracieJayne_ @CarlDunnJr That sounds like a HUGE undertaking. And a worthwhile one! How long did it take? And how emotionally hard was it? #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @annemecremin @janeymachine I feel like I'm consistent, and could answer questions, but not simply build a "profile" of myself (even internally for my own use! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Meandmymhmatter: @CarlDunnJr I find it hard to know who I am. Hard to know what is really me. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Borderline_OK: So yeah, I'm mostly aware of myself as the back of a pair of hands And what I am when alone with eyes closed (yay #solipsism) #BPDChat https://t.co/MQ9ah8jo7j |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @sgenevievecs @OfficialBPDChat Hi and Welcome to the chat! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @HoppyPelican Hi! That sounds difficult. Glad you're here with us. #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @annemecremin: I don't have identity or personality (know I probs do but not aware of it/couldn't say what it is); I just reflect others around me #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @jaklumen @Alice_DBT It was a brutal ride. Will never forget it. I am very thankful for the skytrain. It has made a big difference in accessing places. #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: I still srtuggle with whoI am. #bpdchat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin Like there's not enough of me to make a whole; I'm a not-yet-fully-realised character w only half the features of a 'normal' person #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @iamfinenoreally: #BPDChat there is a lot of pressure to identify very specifically. As a Borderline the sense of identity is relentlessly fluid. |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally #BPDChat but maybe we are more evolved/enlightened having no fixed identity? More modern to be fluid. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @HeidiRoseC: |
 | kip ❆ @karopaya @CarlDunnJr Very much so. I know the things I enjoy, but have a difficult time defining myself and knowing myself as a person. #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @allyc375 It says that you believe in something to get involved.#BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @Alice_DBT Familiar - I went to a group thing, ended last year, been kind of sliding sliding sliding sliding ever since #BPDChat (1/2) |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @RJ_in_the_Wood @jaklumen @Alice_DBT Where are you from? I was orginally from vancouver island- live in switzerland now. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @HeidiRoseC Yes, people have told me they scan other people to figure out how to thinks and feel. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @karopaya: @CarlDunnJr Very much so. I know the things I enjoy, but have a difficult time defining myself and knowing myself as a person. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @karopaya Hi! Welcome. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @abbie_autopsy: |
 | Jae Marie @Blessed_Jlisse #MHAW #KEEPTALKINGMH #SPREADAWARENESS #BPDCHAT #mhaw17 #wordpress #blog #mentalhealth #bpd #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #BPDawareness https://t.co/oDjPDCzib3 |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin I think this may be one of the reasons I have lot anxiety when meeting new ppl. If anyone asks me to tell them about me I'm stumped #BPDChat |
| Jae Marie @Blessed_Jlisse #MHAW #KEEPTALKINGMH #SPREADAWARENESS #BPDCHAT #mhaw17 #wordpress #blog #mentalhealth #bpd #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #BPDawareness https://t.co/hnvzioBzTQ |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @annemecremin: I pretty regularly change my mind about what I am or should be and how I should portray myself to others #BPDChat #BPDawareness |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood THIS #bpdchat https://t.co/sAUwWQsBWZ |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: I do not think the media is helping people with who they are either. #bpdchat |
 | Mental Health Girl @AnoninPtbo @OfficialBPDChat I don't know who I truly am. Wish I could take part in these chats, but with 2 little kids, it's hit and miss. #bpdchat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @Alice_DBT 2/2 BUT I have noticed more ability to "interrogate" myself; causality, boundaries, that sort of thing, +honesty abt trauma & needs #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @cujokillerpug How do you mean? #BPDChat |
| Mental Health Girl @AnoninPtbo RT @RJ_in_the_Wood: THIS #bpdchat https://t.co/sAUwWQsBWZ |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @jaklumen @Alice_DBT You are not too far away- try in the summer holidays- but washington state is so similar to bc. #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @RJ_in_the_Wood: THIS #bpdchat https://t.co/sAUwWQsBWZ |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood @janeymachine I dont know about that... but I do often look in the mirror and feel like im looking at a stranger. #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug I have learned that I am me. I do not want to be someone else. #bpdchat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK <joke> which kid do you hit, and which do you miss? </joke> #BPDChat https://t.co/nIq5M4pUsD |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Is it difficult to know what your values are? #BPDChat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin Makes me feel v shallow & inadequate, like other people probably have 'more' there & I'm just a shell w nothing real to back it up #BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally #BPDChat it can lead you into identities you never really wanted. I find myself child-free, single and seemingly unable to not be that. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Without a solid sense of self, one's identity can be about who you're with or what you're doing in the moment. #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @Alice_DBT So true - AND when ppl act like you "changed" due to dx, treatment or whatever, end up doubting yrself? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Has having a changing identity caused you problems with relationships or caused you to change employment? #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr They show unrealistic people in everyday situations. Models who are so thin it is not funny. Showing this is how we should be. . #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @janeymachine I've referred to "radical honesty" many times. Sounds like I'm not the only one who is compelled that way x #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Alice_DBT That's great. I think a value list and identifying your values can help. #BPDChat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin Think this also leads me to lot of self-hate - inevitably the way I portrayed myself last month is not what I think I should be now #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @annemecremin: Think this also leads me to lot of self-hate - inevitably the way I portrayed myself last month is not what I think I should be now #BPDChat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin I seem to reserve a lot of loathing for other 'annes'/past manifestations of my nebulous 'self' which I no longer back #BPDChat |
| Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter @CarlDunnJr I think I know what my values are. Its other things that I struggle with. #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood I become what I think the people/ situation needs. Its not that my real self is gone. Im just channeling myself differently. #bpdchat https://t.co/BG5H4Zeiqv |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK I know what I loathe about human nature and what pisses me off in the moment, but values? What the hell are those...? #BPDChat https://t.co/smf4HFBgzz |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr Getting out of a bad relationship changed who I am for the better.#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @annemecremin I think someone has said previously that lack of identity led to feelings of emptiness and self-hate. #BPDChat |
| Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter @CarlDunnJr I always thought I would be teacher but now its the last thing I want to do #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood I actually really believe that this is a possibility! #BPDChat https://t.co/3mwUASWYfU |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @TracieJayne_ @SemicolonTravel @CarlDunnJr We'll have to go off in slightly diff. directions here - I am a "no reason, no meaning, no matter" guy #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Meandmymhmatter: @CarlDunnJr I think I know what my values are. Its other things that I struggle with. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Meandmymhmatter What other things? #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @janeymachine My attitude exactly. I went through a people pleasing phase and I am so over it.#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr One person mentioned carrying a list of their values so they could consult them when they had a decision to make. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Have you ever felt like an imposter? #BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat I have been from welder to sex worker to filmmaker and from lesbian to straight to asexual...plays havoc with career and love life! |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin For a long time all my opinions etc could change at a whim if people I liked disagreed because there was so little 'backing it up' #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood YES! THIS! It's such a strong desire and feeling. #bpdchat https://t.co/muHMHTn1fV |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @jaklumen @TracieJayne_ @SemicolonTravel @CarlDunnJr :) give us youtube links and hashtags !! #BPDChat #BPDisco |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @TracieJayne_ @CarlDunnJr Thanks. Through DBT I realized I am better and I deserve better. I am still a work in progress.#BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK I couldn't eat a whole one #BPDChat https://t.co/OgKx3xCXJt |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin Count it as achievement that I can now be in relationships w ppl w very diff views & tho I find that painful I can stand my ground #BPDChat |
| Mental Health Girl @AnoninPtbo Hahaha! 😂 https://t.co/idMOMyFd1F |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin @CarlDunnJr Yes! Emptiness is a feeling I think I'm very familiar & probably the thing I most often notice that I feel/my 'main' emotion #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @iamfinenoreally Yes, I can see how that many changes could make things difficult. #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr I used to. Then I accepted that BPD is a part of who I am things got better.#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: @TracieJayne_ @CarlDunnJr Thanks. Through DBT I realized I am better and I deserve better. I am still a work in progress.#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @RJ_in_the_Wood: YES! THIS! It's such a strong desire and feeling. #bpdchat https://t.co/muHMHTn1fV |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @annemecremin: @CarlDunnJr Yes! Emptiness is a feeling I think I'm very familiar & probably the thing I most often notice that I feel/my 'main' emotion #BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat good idea to have a strong word with yourself and ideally consultation before making any decision beyond a latte or flat white. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Here's a list of 500 values that @BPDFFS posted in a previous chat. May help with values identification. #BPDChat https://t.co/xUo7A6Apao |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin The problem with so simplistically trying to 'centre my self' around some beliefs tho cld be that I'm unhealthily invested in them #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @janeymachine I felt for a long time ashamed of having BPD. I felt like no one understood..I felt like i had to please everyone around me.#BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher Never an imposter, a chameleon at times, but never an imposter. #bpdchat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin I get extremely emotional about politics for example because I've based so much of my conception of myself around my pol views #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @TracieJayne_ @CarlDunnJr My job brought out my true kindness and help me understand it more.#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @GemmaLuescher Ah, okay. #BPDchat |
| Mental Health Girl @AnoninPtbo @CarlDunnJr Every day! #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @allyc375: |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK I don't really get imposter symdrome, when I was employed I thought (knew?) I was good at my job. If ppl asked too much I said "no" #BPDChat https://t.co/OgKx3xCXJt |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin So now often if someone criticises my political views it can feel like they're attacking myself, because to me it kinda is myself #BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally @CarlDunnJr thats why its easier to be alone as you can't be an imposter to your self...or can you? #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK #BPDChat I even remember s'one in work asking how I was feeling and (long time b4 dx) I said "bulletproof" XD !! Must have been a good week |
| kip ❆ @karopaya @CarlDunnJr Definitely #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Someone mentioned to me that when they were working on recovery they felt like two different people at times. #BPDChat *HERE |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr One person previously mentioned that journaling was helpful for them in knowing themselves. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Do you wear different masks depending on the situation or the person you're with? #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood Sometimes. I was taught, omissions a form of lying; so I feel like in order to be the real me, I need to be all of me @ once.. 1/2 #BPDchat https://t.co/T35d6fr9bK |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin RT @iamfinenoreally: #BPDChat there is a lot of pressure to identify very specifically. As a Borderline the sense of identity is relentlessly fluid. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @jaklumen I think that could be. Integration seems to be a good goal, I would think. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @RJ_in_the_Wood: Sometimes. I was taught, omissions a form of lying; so I feel like in order to be the real me, I need to be all of me @ once.. 1/2 #BPDchat https://t.co/T35d6fr9bK |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood 2/2 ...but I dont know how to be all of me @ once, 'cause there is so much thats me, that I dont know how to make it work together. #BPDChat https://t.co/5gDoetF1Hi |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK That… that's not a values list, it's a dictionary! Also (ignoring corporate terms) seems VERY general/universal, could apply to all #BPDChat https://t.co/O5OVdLr4PJ |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Borderline_OK: That… that's not a values list, it's a dictionary! Also (ignoring corporate terms) seems VERY general/universal, could apply to all #BPDChat https://t.co/O5OVdLr4PJ |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr There are situations where you don't need people to know you battle with a form of MI - when you are advertising about your art. #BPDchat |
| Genevieve. @sgenevievecs @OfficialBPDChat #BPDchat Hi! |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr Due to horrid trust issues with men, I tend to until I get to know them well. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr references, or knowing what you like or don't like, is important for a sense of self & identity. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr To help develop a sense of self, notice and assert your preferences: notice and develop your "likes & dislikes". #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr Or there are just times you don't need the whole cafe staring at you when someone tells you to pray away your illness. #BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat isn't it human to do that to a degree? I find I do opposite and just try and disappear in plain sight. |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood This is good advice @CarlDunnJr. I tend to practice humility too much and always give way to almost everyone else's preference. #BPDChat https://t.co/pCEc1yMZSZ |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @RJ_in_the_Wood: This is good advice @CarlDunnJr. I tend to practice humility too much and always give way to almost everyone else's preference. #BPDChat https://t.co/pCEc1yMZSZ |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin 'diff masks' - was terrible @ this in first yr of uni. Trying to stop but still sometimes realise have diff voices for diff groups #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @TracieJayne_ Precisely - and I can see some (eg devout) that aren't 1-size-fits-all but I could scrub half the list & put "being nice" instead! #BPDChat |
| Floyd @iamfinenoreally nighty night y'all - it was great to be a part of #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr It can be helpful to practice self-acceptance - accepting the various "parts" of you - with compassion. #BPDChat |
| Genevieve. @sgenevievecs @CarlDunnJr vs. who I want people to think I am. It's been rough, but we're getting there. (2/2) #BPDchat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher Because I am mostly in an environment where all of us have a mental illness of sorts there is nothing to hide. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @iamfinenoreally Good night. I'm glad you were part of tonight's chat. #BPDchat |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin After a bit that's impossible to keep up & altogether diff masks leads to me feeling like imposter pretending to fit in; not nice #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @sgenevievecs: @CarlDunnJr vs. who I want people to think I am. It's been rough, but we're getting there. (2/2) #BPDchat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood @FieldingPolly @CarlDunnJr yes... lonely. but very freeing. #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood RT @CarlDunnJr: Here's a list of 500 values that @BPDFFS posted in a previous chat. May help with values identification. #BPDChat https://t.co/xUo7A6Apao |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @sgenevievecs Hi! Glad to hear therapy has been helpful. #BPDChat |
| Mental Health Girl @AnoninPtbo RT @CarlDunnJr: To help develop a sense of self, notice and assert your preferences: To help develop a sense of self, notice and assert your preferences: notice and develop your "likes & dislikes". #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @CharterSub: |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK Agreed; I've noticed my "nope" moments more, tried to assert, at times ended up feeling like it got me nowhere but judged #BPDChat https://t.co/rhLhpHKQqe |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @CharterSub Hi! #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood RT @CarlDunnJr: @jaklumen I think that could be. Integration seems to be a good goal, I would think. #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @TracieJayne_ (it was deliberate - the whole tickbox value thing seemed so… insipid? lightweight? crap?) #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin Thanks for this #BPDChat - self-image/identity are some of main things I struggle w even when not /that/ 'ill' so v good to talk :) #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
| downtrodden 👣 @annecremin Thanks #BPDChat - self-image/identity some of main things struggle w even when not /that/ 'ill' so v good to talk. Look after yourselves <3 |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @janeymachine Ah. I'm sorry to hear that's so hard. #BPDChat |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood @janeymachine @CarlDunnJr this happens to me too. #BPDChat |
| Borderline OK @Borderline_OK @janeymachine @ang_fran My usual warning applies - they can never un-hear "the truth" and it could have totally unexpected negative lifelong effects #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @jaklumen @CarlDunnJr @CharterSub I go in waves - sometimes my BPD comes forward and sometimes my PTSD is more apparent depending on stressors and triggors #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @TracieJayne_ @janeymachine And I am proud of who I am !!!!#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @AnoninPtbo Hi! Thanks for sharing. How does that complicate things? #BPDChat |
 | 😰Ⓥ @user37093 RT @janeymachine: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @cujokillerpug: @TracieJayne_ @janeymachine And I am proud of who I am !!!!#BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
| RJ Wood @RJ_in_the_Wood RT @CarlDunnJr: It can be helpful to practice self-acceptance - accepting the various "parts" of you - with compassion. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @RJ_in_the_Wood @iamfinenoreally Good night. Have a good week. #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CharterSub @jaklumen @CarlDunnJr I have it mostly under control due to the intense therapies i have had, and the time that has past since moving out on my own. #BPDChat |
| Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter @CarlDunnJr I have felt like an imposter so many times. Like someone will find me out soon #BPDChat |
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