#bpdchat Transcript
Healthcare social media transcript of the #bpdchat hashtag.
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| Profile | Tweet |
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 | BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Hello and welcome to #BPDChat if you feel affected by tonight's chat please contact your country's helpline at https://t.co/xM11LzEVEP |
 | Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Hello and welcome to #BPDChat if you feel affected by tonight's chat please contact your country's helpline at https://t.co/GtlNdoZpFo |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Also, check here for other links to emotional crisis support: https://t.co/mxOmwvgtLu #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Also, check here for other links to emotional crisis support: https://t.co/fdwGqnYZ2q #BPDChat |
 | Debbie @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr Hi - I made it. Been a couple weeks #BPDChat |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat If you're going to post something that may affect others please use TW Trigger warning #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr If you're going to post something that may affect others please use TW Trigger warning #BPDChat |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Icebreaker: 'Which animal best describes you & why? What animal would you like to be?' #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Icebreaker: 'Which animal best describes you & why? What animal would you like to be?' #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @simplyimagine1: @CarlDunnJr Hi - I made it. Been a couple weeks #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @eleaanormay: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @eleaanormay @OfficialBPDChat Hi! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @strongertoget @OfficialBPDChat Hi! Glad you're back. #BPDChat |
 | Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr My mom described me as an owl when I was younger- i was always observing when words failed me. #BPDchat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr I would love the agility of a cat - and i love the aloofness. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr What animal describes me: Dog (I identify with my dog. :) ) What animal would I like to be: Eagle (soaring). #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @GemmaLuescher: @CarlDunnJr My mom described me as an owl when I was younger- i was always observing when words failed me. #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
 | Freeperson @CeriFree Hi #BPDChat think I'd be a hedgehog cute but prickly at times and I'd get to hibernate in the winter |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @GemmaLuescher: @CarlDunnJr I would love the agility of a cat - and i love the aloofness. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @CeriFree: Hi #BPDChat think I'd be a hedgehog cute but prickly at times and I'd get to hibernate in the winter |
| Freeperson @CeriFree @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr I'm an observer too #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @eleaanormay: |
 | Heather Wray @whereis_heather @OfficialBPDChat I love capybaras #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @BPDFFS @profjamiehh Hi, Sue! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SemicolonTravel: @OfficialBPDChat I love capybaras #BPDchat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 #BPDChat - sorry @CarlDunnJr too hard for our brain to think of one animal when we are many, |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
 | Paul Green @mindfump @OfficialBPDChat I'd have to say a cat, but I would actually like to be a turtle. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @BPDFFS @profjamiehh I am well. Thanks, Sue. #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr Try to come to an agreement of which one most of you like! #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
 | 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat Prob a fox or an owl. I'd very much like to be one of our ferrets, they're spoiled & I envy their ability to sleep like the dead. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @simplyimagine1 No worries. I'm just glad you're here with us. #BPDChat |
 | Cass; Unapologetically So. @CassJustCass @CarlDunnJr A deer. Timid and difficult to get close to #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @l_jordan11: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @TheWeInMe: @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat Prob a fox or an owl. I'd very much like to be one of our ferrets, they're spoiled & I envy their ability to sleep like the dead. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @CassJustCass: @CarlDunnJr A deer. Timid and difficult to get close to #BPDchat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr Hi Gemma. Too difficult because some like the ocean, or air, or underground, or speed, etc #BPDchat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr Last thing you need is a royal fight to break out. #bpdchat |
 | Bernice 🌈 & Co. @vmagal1 @OfficialBPDChat I'd say a cat too...I like doing what I want, when I want and a lot of that consists of eating and sleeping. #BPDChat PS I'm new here. |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr How are you? It's been awhile....Gemma #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @JJDBADGER 😂😂😂#BPDChat no idea why there was a sloth in this but it deeply satisfied me. 🤔😂🤔 https://t.co/N5fhWbsTpz |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @vmagal1 @OfficialBPDChat Hi! Welcome to the chat. #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr LOL - true enough #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Any other animals? #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @JJDBADGER @strongertoget I was so excited to share this GIF with you I could hardly contain the stupidity of my excitement. Regardless yay sloths! 🤔😂🤔 #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @FieldingPolly: |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr Not good indeed. Sorry you are going through that #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @FieldingPolly @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat Elephants are THE BEST!<3<3<3 #BPDChat & hamsters are indeed frantic yet adorable little fluffs. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @abbie_autopsy: |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr I am actually used to low bp- but glad I have a dr that is really keeping on top of it unlike my previous dr. #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @JJDBADGER Agreed! #BPDChat I challenge anyone to watch only 10sec clip of a sloth without feeling drowsy. 😏 |
 | Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug #BPDChat hi😁 |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @bpd_orchid Hi! #BPDChat |
| Cass; Unapologetically So. @CassJustCass @BPDFFS hi Sue long time no chat! #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @TheWeInMe: @FieldingPolly @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat Elephants are THE BEST!<3<3<3 #BPDChat & hamsters are indeed frantic yet adorable little fluffs. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @Alice_DBT This description was perfection. #BPDChat relatable choice. |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @strongertoget @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr Yes - we aren't the same moment to moment. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @bpd_orchid: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @FieldingPolly @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat Worked with them for a short time yeeears ago. They're wonderful. #BPDChat |
| BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat Tonight's topic is..... Endings (& Beginnings): Why Are They So Difficult? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Tonight's topic is..... Endings (& Beginnings): Why Are They So Difficult? #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr So good to hear - hopefully this doc will get a handled and you can feel better soon :) #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr How do endings affect you? #BPDChat |
| Freeperson @CeriFree @simplyimagine1 @strongertoget @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr We could be chameleons then #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr We might be talking about the ending of a relationship, or it could be the ending of therapy. Or other types of endings. #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug They are hard. I am in the process of ending my life in WV and starting a new life in SC. #bpdchat |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr I take them really hard. I have abandonment issues and when things end I tend to spiral downwards #BPDchat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr the middles aren't that great either....cause of the emotional roller coster extreme #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @borderline_babe Hi. We're just glad you're here. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SemicolonTravel: @CarlDunnJr I take them really hard. I have abandonment issues and when things end I tend to spiral downwards #BPDchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @janeymachine Damn near spit my water!😂😂😂 #BPDChat this meme is now bein stored in my phone for the most inappropriate & opportune moment. Well done.😂 |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @bpd_orchid: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @FieldingPolly: |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug Ending my life in WV is hard due to all that I have accomplished here and the friends I am leaving. #bpdchat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr ABANDONMENT - plain and simple. #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @FieldingPolly @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat I've worked as a photographer most of my life. Friend took us to a Ren faire where we began chatting up the elephant trainer. :) #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @cujokillerpug Best wishes on your transition to SC. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @simplyimagine1 That must feel very scary? Does anything help? #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @FieldingPolly @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat He rescued one of his 🐘 from a circus. They're retired now in Florida I believe...🤔 #BPDChat this is Happy. 😏Old portrait we snapped of him. https://t.co/7VK9J3eLkf |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @FieldingPolly @bpd_orchid @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat Indeed it was. They're wonderful lovely creatures. Giant puppies honestly! #BPDChat <3 |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher Beginnings are harder for me- endings are just confusing for me. Too much upheaval and moving as a kid #BPDChat |
| Freeperson @CeriFree Endings often leave me feeling rejected and unworthy #BPDChat |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr I've been in a panic attack mess because of someone I met twice. Everything feels like the end of the world #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr Mindfulness and grounding - haven't mastered them yet so we dissociate a lot or switch #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @strongertoget I'm glad you're here even while you're nervous. #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr Thank you. I think I will have everything in place.The unknowns terrify me. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr What kind of endings are hardest for you? #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr relationships #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Alice_DBT Have you talked about any ways to ease the transition from therapy? #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug The endings that are hard on me are when I leave friends. #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat I rather enjoy endings more often than not. They can seem sad or whatever but typically the finality of things is beneficial to me. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr Unexpected. I find getting blind sided compounds everything. No chance to mentally prepare #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @BPDFFS Thanks for sharing that, Sue. #BPDchat |
| Cass; Unapologetically So. @CassJustCass @CarlDunnJr #BPDchat I find even saying goodbye at gatherings uncomfortable. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @TheWeInMe: @bpd_orchid @FieldingPolly @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat He rescued one of his 🐘 from a circus. They're retired now in Florida I believe...🤔 #BPDChat this is Happy. 😏Old portrait we snapped of him. https://t.co/7VK9J3eLkf |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @FieldingPolly @abbie_autopsy @OfficialBPDChat It was definitely an enjoyable experience. We had opportunity as a child to be around an elephant as well. School zooprogram #BPDChat <3 |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
 | John Baker @JohnBaker_Leeds RT @CarlDunnJr: Tonight's topic is..... Endings (& Beginnings): Tonight's topic is..... Endings (& Beginnings): Why Are They So Difficult? #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @janeymachine OMG!!!!! You are speaking our language #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @bpd_orchid: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @CarlDunnJr Perhaps it's sad but the only endings I, myself, have ever struggled with is coming to the end of a book I enjoy. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @Alice_DBT Been there - done that #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @CarlDunnJr Endings in regards to people, relationships etc have never to my knowledge bothered me. #BPDChat losing animals is hard for us tho, not ppl. |
| Bernice 🌈 & Co. @vmagal1 @OfficialBPDChat Both mean there will be changes #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr I feel aloof to endings but usually I need time to process goodbyes to people that impact my life in a major way. #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr Thanks, you think? I'm not certain how to define it, but it's just what's been true for me. #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @MrsTeepot @CarlDunnJr Yep - or there has to be something wrong with me because there goes another relationship #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Is it change that is hardest for you or is it losing that attachment (or something else)? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @bpd_orchid: |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug The thing about the unknown is that I can let the fear hold me back or I can embrace it and hope for the best. #bpdchat |
| Freeperson @CeriFree Beginnings are scary I feel a mixture of hope excitement whilst being full of anxiety #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Some people have said they don't do goodbyes. Do you avoid goodbyes? #BPDChat |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr It's the change. Change is the hardest every day aspect I face and even minor things feel like major hurdles #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @CarlDunnJr Attachment that is the hardest... we can handle change if it's in small increments #bpdchat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat I guess it is the attachment to my friends. They understand me and I am scared of what others will think |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SemicolonTravel: @CarlDunnJr It's the change. Change is the hardest every day aspect I face and even minor things feel like major hurdles #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @CarlDunnJr We crave structure & consistency more often than not. So change can be difficult. It disrupts my head at times. #BPDChat not attachment tho. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr No because I find it hard to move on without the closure. I find I ruminate on the what could have been if I don't #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @MrsTeepot @MoSnoking I had a CPN that was really hard to say goodbye to. We came so far then she had to leave. She was moving far away. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @FieldingPolly: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @simplyimagine1: @CarlDunnJr Attachment that is the hardest... we can handle change if it's in small increments #bpdchat |
| Freeperson @CeriFree @CarlDunnJr Losing the attachment definitely #BPDChat |
 | Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl @OfficialBPDChat A dog. I'm loyal to a fault. #BPDchat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @elasticmindbpd @BPDFFS Everyone leaves us - it's only a matter of time. Fear of abandonment is the ultimate terror. #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr depends on the type. There are far too many variables... taking a relationships tho: it happened-served a purpose-now it ends. #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl @OfficialBPDChat I'm not sure I'd like to be anything else! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl RT @bpd_orchid: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @MrsTeepot Yes, I can understand that. #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl So much this!! https://t.co/IzCwHuxuoL |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr Oh & Of course you can ask lol. <3 #BPDChat I'm not certain how to fully explain it. I never had consistency & don't have BPD but DID. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @abbie_autopsy: |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl So I'm not sure how this works. We just jump in? #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @elasticmindbpd @BPDFFS We don't either when both are still living. #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @MrsTeepot @CarlDunnJr I look at it as a sense of accomplishment more often than not. #BPDChat a conclusion, the finish, end of the line, reaching a goal etc... |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @MoSnoking @MrsTeepot They can come and make sure you take meds and that you are looked after if you are in a space fresh out of a clinic. #BPDchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr No, not at all! I was genuinely asking how you viewed it & why you thought it was good. <3 #BPDChat |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug @SallyGirl Just jump in! #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl Endings r hard bcuz I'm either afraid I'll never have that good again, or that it will be worse tomorrow #BPDChat https://t.co/kIf6B2bkY9 |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @abbie_autopsy @CarlDunnJr what is worse is the ones where nothing was said - the silence #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @SallyGirl Hi. Yes, you're doing great. Just tweet out in response to something you see in the conversation. #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr What have you found that helps with endings? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SallyGirl: Endings r hard bcuz I'm either afraid I'll never have that good again, or that it will be worse tomorrow #BPDChat https://t.co/kIf6B2bkY9 |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr It's just the Logical way I look at it... All thing have different sections. Simply: beginning middle & end. #BPDChat End=accomplishment |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @simplyimagine1: @abbie_autopsy @CarlDunnJr what is worse is the ones where nothing was said - the silence #bpdchat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 @janeymachine Is there help for me/we... I was abandoned at birth. It's a core suffering. #bpdchat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl Endings can also b good tho bcuz it can be an end to torment or gratitude for today's grace #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Some people crave routine and don't deal well with change; do you find change (such as an ending) difficult? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr I think we're talking about ending mostly in regards to people? Or do you have similar problems with other sorts of endings? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr I rarely am curious about "what ifs." What ifs are mind poison. Oh I can certainly say some endings WERE my fault, but so what? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @TheWeInMe: @strongertoget @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr I rarely am curious about "what ifs." What ifs are mind poison. Oh I can certainly say some endings WERE my fault, but so what? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @TheWeInMe: @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr It's just the Logical way I look at it... All thing have different sections. Simply: beginning middle & end. #BPDChat End=accomplishment |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr Ah ok... #BPDChat that isn't something I do, parts of me I'm sure do & have over the yrs but not a me thing. Oh, I have DID, not BPD, btw. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Do you break up relationships before they get broken up by the other person? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Have you found ways to plan for endings? What have you found that helps? #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr That must be a bother. I'm sorry... I suppose that coincides with anxieties though. #BPDChat |
| Debbie @simplyimagine1 We becoming very anxious by the topic. sorry must leave. #bpdchat take care everyone and thx @CarlDunnJr |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr I do. I had a terrible time when I finished my group therapy and school #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl Sometimes endings are hard because (x) feels so good I don't want it to end #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr I tend to not think that way at all... I know some of my parts do but again not a Me thing. I am sorry though. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @jaklumen All of the above - whatever is most important to you. It can also be ending therapy, etc. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr Yes, sort of. I do the one thing I know won't be tolerated so then they're forced to break up with me so they're the bad guy #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @bpd_orchid: |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr I find I have to with some people due to abuse and boundaries #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @MrsTeepot @CarlDunnJr That's where we differ and is a good thing, my friend. #BPDChat I don't experience the emotions of any thing. Mine are thought not felt. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @bpd_orchid That does sound like it might be helpful. #BPDChat |
 | Soph avec BPD @sophb66 @bpd_orchid Nearly impossible and when I do get there I end up coming home early #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| Freeperson @CeriFree @CarlDunnJr Sometimes I do especially if I feel too dependent on them #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr No worries. Just how I think it. My life experiences didn't have some "just cause" or "willful meaning" but we learned through it. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @strongertoget Glad the chat was helpful. Good night. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr I think if I have enough time to adjust, enough support for the next step, ie know who next support person is. #BPDchat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl Beginnings can be scary. Fear of rejection. Fear of unknown = feels like loss of control. Which leads to shame. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @BPDFFS Good night, Sue. #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr Relationships ex: you date to know yourself & desires wants needs etc. Marriage isn't the goal of dating. Rather it shouldn't be. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @MrsTeepot I often get a few minutes behind in the chat, too. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @abbie_autopsy: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @strongertoget @bpd_orchid @CarlDunnJr & thanks lol. Best of luck!! #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @bpd_orchid People going away is harder for me #BPDchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SemicolonTravel: @CarlDunnJr Yes, sort of. I do the one thing I know won't be tolerated so then they're forced to break up with me so they're the bad guy #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @bpd_orchid: |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl Beginnings are exiting because I have hope for change. Hope for peace of mind. Hope for a future. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @abbie_autopsy: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @twistedup_Nside @CarlDunnJr I just don't form attachments. Some ppl are important to me but if it ends then it just ends. (((Shrugs))) #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @FieldingPolly: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @CeriFree: @CarlDunnJr Sometimes I do especially if I feel too dependent on them #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @GemmaLuescher: @CarlDunnJr I think if I have enough time to adjust, enough support for the next step, ie know who next support person is. #BPDchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr Which I find is important. Determine what you want from something BEFORE you're in an emotional crisis. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @BPDFFS: |
| Rebecca #youarenotalone @cujokillerpug I am going. this topic has mildly triggered me Have a good week #bpdchat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @janeymachine: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr I guess my question would be what were you wanting to accomplish that you perceive wasn't? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Do you find that having routines and structure help with things like endings? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Sometimes when things are tough it can be helpful to use self-soothing and/or distracting skills to help get us through. #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr Do you have trouble accepting the reality of an ending after it happens? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @Alice_DBT: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @MrsTeepot @CarlDunnJr We'll combine to form 1super functioning human!!! #BPDChat But yes difficult in a different way at times, especially as therapy progresses. https://t.co/tOkzbJpOl8 |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Alice_DBT Good night. Thanks for being on the chat. #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl I have to fight this urge HARD when meeting someone new that I click with! #bpdprobs #BPDChat https://t.co/c97LgZ3Wpl |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @FieldingPolly: |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @MrsTeepot @MoSnoking It was more finally I get someone who "gets" me and now they are leaving - how do I know the next one will be as good etc #BPDchat |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @CarlDunnJr I don't have time accepting the reality. I have trouble with the transition of letting go #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @abbie_autopsy: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @FieldingPolly: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr How long do you think that should take? #BPDChat your qualities & potential have grown over your lifetime & will take time to come up.🤔🙂🤔 |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Jenny_929 I don't think it's wrong. That's an interesting idea. Does it seem to help or no? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SemicolonTravel: @CarlDunnJr I don't have time accepting the reality. I have trouble with the transition of letting go #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl I have a giant toolbox of self-soothe methods, and a few that I'm not afraid to ask for help on! #BPDChat https://t.co/1JwuzdKKiO |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @CarlDunnJr Calming myself w:the knowledge that I can reread my book. #BPDChat but beyond that I look at the pieces that were before the end, whys etc. |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @CarlDunnJr What came before, what purpose it served in my life, if any, people waste their time but I do try not to do this. #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl If it was a traumatic ending, #ALLTHEYES #BPDChat https://t.co/b0EKsSXe1h |
| Freeperson @CeriFree @FieldingPolly @CarlDunnJr Years later and I'm still struggling with endings they feature in dreams/nightmares #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl @FieldingPolly @janeymachine Right! Learning to accept my feelings ww/o judging them they're MUCH easier to manage! #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @Jenny_929 I can see how you might want to do that. But it must hurt when you realize it has ended? #BPDChat |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @SallyGirl: I have a giant toolbox of self-soothe methods, and a few that I'm not afraid to ask for help on! #BPDChat https://t.co/1JwuzdKKiO |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr Sorry to hear that. #BPDChat People are odd in that way to me. We "feel" someone should be shown our worth, when reality is they can see it. |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @MrsTeepot: |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @CarlDunnJr I am so used to endings it feels like second nature , even when it was so hard to say good bye- it got easier as I got stronger #bpdchat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr Just my small thoughts. Example would be you are kind intelligent, easy to speak to&do indeed know your worth. #BPDChat & I barely know you😉 |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @MrsTeepot @elasticmindbpd @CarlDunnJr It feels so much safer. I even went back for community mental health as a way to learn about more community resources #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @MrsTeepot @CarlDunnJr With DID, talk therapy gets difficult but my lack of emotion makes it even harder at times. #BPDChat I'll send you some of my brain k? Lol |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl How I feel when someone I love dies. Which has happened way too much. #BPDChat https://t.co/oE1xISuPoj |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher @MrsTeepot @MoSnoking I know it isn't the same as the first but my needs are also different. I don't dissociate like I used to. #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr Others don't need convincing, it seems to be, you who needs to see yourself without the self-deprecating goggles on. <3 #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr Such as, What do you think I'm great at? What am I good at? What is my best quality? My best feature? Etc... #BPDChat seemed to help |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher The hardest goodbyes are that of saying goodbye when they go home to their dad #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @MrsTeepot @CarlDunnJr Baha! YES! Billion dollar idea there! #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl RT @janeymachine: #BPDChat When something ends, it's confirmation bias: |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr Oh & yes... this is going to be difficult thing to do but worth it from what everyone who's tried has told me. #BPDChat |
| Sallygirl 🏳️🌈🪩🧠 @SallyGirl So hard to resist the urge to feel like this! #BPDChat https://t.co/i1Nv9pxvsJ |
| Heather Wray @whereis_heather @FieldingPolly @MrsTeepot @elasticmindbpd @CarlDunnJr I find myself constantly having to remind myself not to have expectations so I won't feel left down #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @MrsTeepot @CarlDunnJr (((Googles USB brain connections & mind transfers))) #BPDChat 🤔😏🤔 |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr RT @FieldingPolly: |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @FieldingPolly Good night, Polly. Thanks for being on the chat. Have a good week. #BPDChat |
| 🕷Erika Reva🕷 @TheWeInMe @elasticmindbpd @bpd_orchid @strongertoget @CarlDunnJr You're welcome. Hope it helps. Even starting with one close person is a great place to start. #BPDChat |
| Gemma Luescher-Verseckas @GemmaLuescher Need to call it a night - getting triggered- 😿#bpdchat |
 | Kettlebell Kid 😉 @KettlebellKiddy #BPDChat the trouble with expectations - they're rarely met. Accept is different instead of grading it & maybe it will easier to accept? |
| Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr @GemmaLuescher Good night, Gemma. Sorry if you're feeling triggered. Glad you were here on the chat. Please take good care of yourself. #BPDChat |
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