#bpdchat Transcript

Healthcare social media transcript of the #bpdchat hashtag.
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BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat
Hello and welcome to #BPDChat if you feel affected by tonight's chat please contact your country's helpline at https://t.co/xM11LzEVEP
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Hello and welcome to #BPDChat if you feel affected by tonight's chat please contact your country's helpline at https://t.co/GtlNdoZpFo
BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat
Also, check here for other links to emotional crisis support: https://t.co/mxOmwvgtLu #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Also, check here for other links to emotional crisis support: https://t.co/fdwGqnYZ2q #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
If you're going to post something that may affect others please use TW Trigger warning #BPDChat
BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat
If you're going to post something that may affect others please use TW Trigger warning #BPDChat
BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat
Icebreaker: 'What book, movie or video have you seen/read recently you would recommend? Why?' #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Icebreaker: 'What book, movie or video have you seen/read recently you would recommend? Why?' #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@CharterSub @OfficialBPDChat Hi! #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @janeymachine:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@janeymachine Hi, there. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@me_bpd_and_dbt Hi! #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @Vodkaworks4:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@Vodkaworks4 Hi! That's good to hear. #BPDChat
Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter
@CarlDunnJr Book I am currently reading is The Chrismasaurus by @TomFletcher and really enjoying it. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @eleaanormay:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @Meandmymhmatter: @CarlDunnJr Book I am currently reading is The Chrismasaurus by @TomFletcher and really enjoying it. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
hi G from Boston, checking to see if @tweetchat works #bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@FieldingPolly @me_bpd_and_dbt Hi! #BPDChat
Borderline OK @Borderline_OK
#BPDChat For a mind-bending movie, watch Predestination Incredibly tightly constructed, and one of those films that doesn't treat the audience like idiots. It's a strange choice of word, but it was a *rewarding* watch
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: hi G from Boston, checking to see if @tweetchat works #bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @jimthevic:
BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat
RT @FieldingPolly:
Debbie @simplyimagine1
@CarlDunnJr Hi @CarlDunnJr - I recently saw the movie "The Shack" - it actually helped me deal with grief (mourning) and other emotions I hadn't realized I needed too. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @Borderline_OK: #BPDChat For a mind-bending movie, watch Predestination Incredibly tightly constructed, and one of those films that doesn't treat the audience like idiots. It's a strange choice of word, but it was a *rewarding* watch
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@BorderlineClown Hi. Glad you're here. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @simplyimagine1: @CarlDunnJr Hi @CarlDunnJr - I recently saw the movie "The Shack" - it actually helped me deal with grief (mourning) and other emotions I hadn't realized I needed too. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@simplyimagine1 Hi! That sounds great. #BPDChat
nicola @adandelionmind
@eleaanormay @OfficialBPDChat Im trying to read that at the moment #bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @HeidiRoseC:
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
The Big Sick movie is awesome. funny at some parts and serious in others #bpdchat Sorry kind of slow. Laptop just doesn't like twitter today for some reason
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: The Big Sick movie is awesome. funny at some parts and serious in others #bpdchat Sorry kind of slow. Laptop just doesn't like twitter today for some reason
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@midnightdemon2 Hi, G. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
also had to load up on pain meds because foot/ankle are berserk. emotions are at an all time all over the damn place so if I start crying again, that is why #bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@ShannonDavissm @OfficialBPDChat Hi. Welcome. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@CarlDunnJr hey Carl! #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: @CarlDunnJr hey Carl! #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Any other suggestions for good books, movies, or videos? #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @CharterSub:
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@Vodkaworks4 I hear you. I signed up for a reading challenge through GoodReads. If I read some more tonight, I migjt have 8 books of the 25 I wanted. #Bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @janeymachine:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: @Vodkaworks4 I hear you. I signed up for a reading challenge through GoodReads. If I read some more tonight, I migjt have 8 books of the 25 I wanted. #Bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @OneTinyTweet:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@OneTinyTweet @BPDBanter Hi! #BPDChat
Blaise Aguirre, MD @blaisemd
Thanks! Our new book #PTSD https://t.co/jafAxtEa0Q @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat https://t.co/07CyhiS4ye
Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter
@CarlDunnJr On YouTube for mental health videos I would suggest @RealMissAnxiety and @MrJonnyBenjamin #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @blaisemd: Thanks! Our new book #PTSD https://t.co/jafAxtEa0Q @CarlDunnJr #BPDChat https://t.co/07CyhiS4ye
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@blaisemd Thanks for posting this. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @CharterSub:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @Meandmymhmatter: @CarlDunnJr On YouTube for mental health videos I would suggest @RealMissAnxiety and @MrJonnyBenjamin #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@Meandmymhmatter @RealMissAnxiety @MrJonnyBenjamin Thanks for the suggestion. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
On to tonight's main topic. #BPDChat
BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat
Tonight's topic is... Primary and Secondary Emotions: Noticing & Expressing Your "True" Emotions #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Tonight's topic is... Primary and Secondary Emotions: Noticing & Expressing Your "True" Emotions #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@CharterSub @FieldingPolly @janeymachine @PeterFonagy That is really cool! Happy for you. I wrote about #CAMS in my memoir and asked the creator @lab_jobes lab for his blessing. Was thankful for a yes! #Bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: @CharterSub @FieldingPolly @janeymachine @PeterFonagy That is really cool! Happy for you. I wrote about #CAMS in my memoir and asked the creator @lab_jobes lab for his blessing. Was thankful for a yes! #Bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Have you ever had the experience of not knowing what emotion you were having? (Or missing your first or "true" emotion in a situation?). #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @jimthevic:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@jimthevic Yes, it's great. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @janeymachine:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@janeymachine Yes, I think it's an important and helpful subject. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@CarlDunnJr Yes, all the time.TW Recently found out w therapist that I go right to suicidal thoughts when other emotions are in play #Bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Primary emotions are our initial first reactions. Secondary emotions often are our reactions to a primary emotion. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @CharterSub:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: @CarlDunnJr Yes, all the time.TW Recently found out w therapist that I go right to suicidal thoughts when other emotions are in play #Bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @eleaanormay:
nicola @adandelionmind
@CarlDunnJr so many times because I feel I dont know how I feel - so many times I feel numb to what I am feeling #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Often our primary emotion is our first and "true" reaction to a situation. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Often sadness is a primary emotion, then we react: with anger or guilt or shame (secondary emotion). #BPDChat
Hala @halalalaya
@CarlDunnJr Always, then I end up crying. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@Borderline_OK Yay! You beat me to it. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @janeymachine:
Meandmymhmatters BA (Hons) @Meandmymhmatter
@CarlDunnJr I struggle a lot with knowing what emotions I am feeling. Sometimes they are just too intense to decipher #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @Vodkaworks4:
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
#bpdchat even though I recovered from BPD traits, I think they are coming out more with #chronicpain being out of control. So my emotions are losing it as well
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @Meandmymhmatter: @CarlDunnJr I struggle a lot with knowing what emotions I am feeling. Sometimes they are just too intense to decipher #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @halalalaya: @CarlDunnJr Always, then I end up crying. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @Vodkaworks4:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: #bpdchat even though I recovered from BPD traits, I think they are coming out more with #chronicpain being out of control. So my emotions are losing it as well
BPD Chat @OfficialBPDChat
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @CharterSub:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@Jenny_929 I think it's really good you've been able to notice that. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Learning about primary and secondary emotions may help with understanding what emotion you're having. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Often our primary emotion is our first and "true" reaction to a situation. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@CharterSub @FieldingPolly @janeymachine @PeterFonagy @lab_jobes Yes, David Jobes is awesome. Met him twice but was too shy for a pic with him @lab_jobes #bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Our emotions provide us valuable information. Knowing what emotion we're having helps us understand its message. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@Vodkaworks4 Yup. You aren't alone with this. #bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Hala @halalalaya
I thought my secondary emotions were just my insecurities 😅 #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @BPDBanter: Books:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @halalalaya: I thought my secondary emotions were just my insecurities 😅 #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @TheBernardBert:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Have you had the experience of having more than one emotion and not being able to figure out which came first? #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
When we understand our emotion and its message we can accurately express our feelings to others. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @eleaanormay:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @jimthevic:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@jimthevic In what way? #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@eleaanormay That's a good question. Does anyone have suggestions for dealing with paranoia? #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@CarlDunnJr yes, often 3, frustration, anger, and sadness come to mind, especially when my disability shows itself. feeling helpless just makes things worse and is a terrible feeling. I just cry #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@CharterSub Wow. Those sound like powerful emotions to deal with. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: @CarlDunnJr yes, often 3, frustration, anger, and sadness come to mind, especially when my disability shows itself. feeling helpless just makes things worse and is a terrible feeling. I just cry #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @jimthevic:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@jimthevic Ah. That's great to hear. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@CharterSub sorry to hear. Are you in the UK or? always here if you need an ear. #BPDChat
Tony Sweet @tonysweet89
RT @jimthevic:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
#BPDChat : Identifying the primary (original) emotion helps us understand the situation & our reaction to it. https://t.co/R4vtCtKmnV
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Judgments can spur secondary emotions that may "cover up" & cause us to lose sight of our primary emotion. #BPDChat https://t.co/d1RdNEbdF0
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
RT @jimthevic:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Letting go of judgments & describing the situation factually can lower emotions & be helpful in relationships. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @BPDBanter:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @janeymachine:
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@CarlDunnJr @eleaanormay grounding is good and for me, meds. sometimes I get psychotic so when I think people are out to get me, it is just because the voices are telling me so, which are not real. Sometimes confronting the person or thing you are paranoid about helps too #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @jimthevic:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @jimthevic:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @janeymachine:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @TheBernardBert:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @OneTinyTweet:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: @CarlDunnJr @eleaanormay grounding is good and for me, meds. sometimes I get psychotic so when I think people are out to get me, it is just because the voices are telling me so, which are not real. Sometimes confronting the person or thing you are paranoid about helps too #BPDChat
MentalHealth Guy @mymntlhealth
RT @BPDBanter:
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@janeymachine @Borderline_OK @CarlDunnJr yes!! but unfortunately, teachers don't know how to address Mental Health issues on top of school work. My friend does meditation in her class of 5-6 yr olds. Hope that helps them. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @TheBernardBert:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @midnightdemon2: @janeymachine @Borderline_OK @CarlDunnJr yes!! but unfortunately, teachers don't know how to address Mental Health issues on top of school work. My friend does meditation in her class of 5-6 yr olds. Hope that helps them. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
If someone disappoints you and you're sad (primary emotion) you might then become angry (secondary emotion). #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
You may only be aware that you're angry - you might have missed that your first emotion was sadness. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Recognizing what your primary emotion was can give you valuable information (emotions give us information that's useful). #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Instead of yelling at the other person (secondary emotion of anger) you can tell them you're sad and disappointed (primary emotion). #BPDChat 1/2
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
Accurately expressing your primary emotion to someone gives them the chance to understand how you really feel. #BPDChat 2/2
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@OneTinyTweet I'm sorry to hear it's causing such distress. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@BPDBirdieBrain Hi! Good noticing this. Yes, anger often covers up the primary emotion you're having. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@struggling_bpd @OfficialBPDChat Hi! Welcome. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@struggling_bpd That sounds as though it would be frustrating. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@struggling_bpd It's something you can learn to do. #BPDChat
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@Borderline_OK @Vodkaworks4 @janeymachine @CarlDunnJr I'm not a professional, so I can't say you can't talk to me as a peer because I might understand what they are going through because I've been there? Just sounds ridic #Bpdchat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@eleaanormay Ah. I'm glad you said so. Your primary emotion is the first emotion you have - it's often your "true" emotion - sadness might be an example. Then you have other emotions in reaction to the emotion of sadness (or in reaction to thoughts) - those are secondary emotions. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@eleaanormay For example, you are supposed to meet a friend for lunch and they don't show up - you are sad (primary emotion). An hour later your friend shows up - by this time you are angry (secondary emotion) & yell at them. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@eleaanormay When you yell at your friend (anger) you completely miss that originally you were sad and missed them. Instead all they see is your yelling & anger at them (so they never know you were sad they weren't there). #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@struggling_bpd Yes, I hope you find DBT helpful. Best wishes... #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @janeymachine:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@janeymachine Thanks for being here. Good night. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @FieldingPolly:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@FieldingPolly Thanks for being here. Good night. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @CharterSub:
🏳️‍⚧️G Collerone (he-him) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚾⚾️ @midnightdemon__
@Borderline_OK @Vodkaworks4 @janeymachine @CarlDunnJr I'm sorry for your loss #Bpdchat
Borderline OK @Borderline_OK
@janeymachine @midnightdemon2 @Vodkaworks4 @CarlDunnJr *training Fixed it ;) #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@Jenny_929 Ah. I guess that's possible. If they're a good friend I think they should understand and maybe be touched that you wanted to be with them. #BPDChat
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
RT @BPDBanter:
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@BPDBanter @OneTinyTweet I'm glad to hear it. Have a good week. #BPDChat
Borderline OK @Borderline_OK
@midnightdemon2 @janeymachine @Vodkaworks4 @CarlDunnJr Sure, I agree - but in the context of doing anything in the workplace caution is key. And I wasn't 100% serious - I thought the winking smiley face is international code for that ;) ;) #BPDChat
Borderline OK @Borderline_OK
Well then, lovely #BPDChat people, I need to drink water, take meds, and watch an episode or two of Dark. Goodnight!
Carl Dunn @CarlDunnJr
@Borderline_OK Good night. #BPDChat
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